from "THE PROPHET"
By Kahlil Gibran
spoke again and said, And what of Marriage, master?
And he answered
You were born
together, and together you
shall be forevermore.
You shall be
together when the white
wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall
be together even in the
silent memory of God.
But let there
be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance
another, but make not a bond
Let it rather
be a moving sea between
the shores of your souls.
other's cup but drink not from
another of your bread but eat
not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance
together and be joyous,
but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the
strings of a lute are alone
though they quiver with the same music.
hearts, but no into each
For only the
hand of Life can contain
together yet not too near
For the pillars
of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow
not in each other's shadow.
AND a woman who
held a babe against her bosom said, Speak to us of Children.
And he said:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's
longing for itself.
They come through you but not from
And though they are with you yet they
belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not
For their souls dwell in the house of to-
morrow, which you cannot visit, not even
in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek
not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries
You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path
of the infinite, and He bends you with His
might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand
be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.
Kahlil Gibran on Love & Life
The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran